I At conXus, I honour duality, the light and the darkness. If you’re looking for a space that promotes love and light only, this might not be the page for you. I don’t pretend life is all high vibes and perfection. I work with real people, real emotions, and real experiences.
Everything in life has an opposite, yet those opposites naturally attract and complete one another. The biggest illusion we’ve been conditioned to believe is that light and darkness are separate, or that one is “better” than the other. In truth, they coexist, depend on each other, and sustain life.
Humans are meant to operate the same way. Living too deeply in your shadow can pull you out of alignment, but living only in the light can disconnect you from reality. True balance sits in the centre, grounded, aware, and intentional. Be loving, but don’t carry what isn’t yours. Recognise your negative traits, not to shame them, but to transmute them into something useful, wise, or empowering.
At your core, you are a soul having a human experience. Even your physical existence began through the blending of two different frequencies, masculine and feminine energy. Masculine energy brings structure, direction, and fire. Feminine energy brings compassion, intuition, and flow. Neither is better, both are needed.
I hold a high vibration because I regularly transmute and alchemise energy, but I’m also human. Sometimes I fall short, sometimes I sit in my shadow on purpose to understand it, and sometimes I stall my own healing to gain deeper insight. That lived experience is what allows me to support others with authenticity.
You are duality. When you learn to work with both sides of yourself, not against them, you create alignment, resilience, and inner harmony. Coexist with your whole self. That’s where your true power lives.